I should record in my diary that Brook told me earlier this week that she did not wish (at this time anyway) to be sealed to me in the temple. After four or five years of marriage, she said, she might want to do so. She did not feel confident about sharing me with Grace, and was afraid Grace might not appreciate sharing me with her. So the best arrangement, at least for the present, was marriage for time.
[Confessions of a Mormon historian : the diaries of Leonard J. Arrington, 1971-1997, Gary James Bergera, editor, Signature Books, 2018]